"Nos hicieron creer" de Jonh Lennon
Nos hicieron creer que el " gran amor ", sólo
sucede una vez, generalmente antes de los 30 años.
No nos contaron que el amor no es accionado, ni llega en un
momento determinado.
Nos hicieron creer que cada uno de nosotros es la mitad de
una naranja, y que la vida sólo tiene sentido cuando encontramos la otra mitad.
No nos contaron que ya nacemos enteros, que nadie en la vida
merece cargar en las espaldas, la responsabilidad de otro.
Nos hicieron creer en una fórmula llamada " dos en uno
" : dos personas pensando igual, actuando igual, que era eso lo que
funcionaba.
No nos contaron que eso tiene un nombre: anulación. Que sólo
siendo con personalidad propia, podremos tener una relación saludable.
Nos hicieron creer que el casamiento es obligatorio y que los
deseos fuera de término, deben ser reprimidos.
Nos hicieron creer que los lindos y flacos son más amados.
Nos hicieron creer que sólo hay una fórmula para ser feliz,
la misma para todos, y los que escapan de ella están condenados a la
marginalidad.
No nos contaron que estas fórmulas son equivocadas, frustran
a las personas, son alienantes, y que podemos intentar otras alternativas.
¡ Ah!, tampoco nos dijeron que nadie nos iba a decir todo
esto... cada uno lo va a tener que descubrir solo. Y ahí, cuando estés muy
enamorado de tí, vas a poder ser muy feliz y te vas a enamorar de alguien .
" Vivimos en un mundo donde nos escondemos para hacer
el amor... aunque la violencia, se practica a plena luz del día "
JOHN LENNON
...in love
with yourself first...
They made
us believe that real love, the one that's strong, only happens once, more
likely before your 30ths.
They never
told us that love is not something that you can put in motion, neither has time
schedule.
They made
us believe that each one of us is the half of an orange, and that life only
makes sense when you find that other half.
They did
not tell us that we were born as whole, and that no-one in our lives deserve to
carry on his back such responsibility of completing what is missing on us: we
grow through life by ourselves. If we have a good company it's just more
pleasant.
They made
us believe in a formula "two in one": two people sharing the same
line of thinking, same ideas, and that it is what works.
It's never
been told that it has another name: invalidation, that only two individuals
with their own personality is how you can have a healthy relationship. It has
been made to believe that marriage is an obliged institution and that fantasies
out of hour should be repressed.
They made
us believe that the thin and beautiful are the ones who is more loved, that the
ones that have little sex are boring, and the ones that has a lot of it are not
trustful, and that will always have a old shoes to a crooked foot; what they
forgot to tell us is that there are more crooked minds than feet.
They made
us believe that there's one way formula to be happy, the same one to everybody,
and the ones that escape from that are condemned to be delinquents.
We have
never been told that those formulas go wrong, they get people frustrated, they
are alienating, and that we can try other alternatives.
Oh! Also
they did not tell us that no one will tell those things to us. Each and
everyone of us will have to learn by ourselves.
And, when
we get to the point that you are in love with yourself first, that's when you
can fall in love with somebody.
Fuente: http://desmesura.org/nubes/nos-hicieron-creer-de-jonh-lennon
